Dating Patterns: The way you approach dating can affect your chances of finding the right person. Before moving forward into dating, you need to make sure you have enough time and space to do the work needed to restore yourself mentally and emotionally. If not then it might interfere with your judgment and it can lead to you having a pattern of picking the wrong person. I can work with you to make sure you have a better understanding of any past or current issues so that you can focus and be more direct in what you are looking for in a partner.
Restoring Confidence: One of the things that can slow a person down or stop them from dating is that they are unsure of themselves. Or they might be nervous because they haven't been on a date in a while and don't know what to expect or how to react. Feeling nervous or unsure is normal especially when dealing with with someone new. This is why it's helpful to have a game plan for dealing with being hesitant or nervous when these feelings come up so that they don’t take over. What I can do is bring out your strengths and show you how to use them to your advantage when dating.
Online Dating: Deciding to date online is an alternative for some people. A mistake you can make is trying to join too many sites all at the same time. If you do this, it can make be harder to focus and might lower your success rate. In general with dating, It can be confusing if you jump in for the first time, and frustrating when you don't connect with anyone right away. What helps is to know what you're goal is. I can guide you on knowing what to look for when setting up a profile and what to watch out for when it comes to looking for a potential date. I will also tell you the red flags to watch out for so that you can spot them in people who give off these types of vibes.
Setting Boundaries: Boundaries are limits set to help prevent other people from crossing the line. They also are to protect you from getting into situations that are out of control. If there's a problem that you find uncomfortable or troubled by, then the guidelines you set can help you handle the situation instead of not knowing what to do. Working with me I can tell you what kind of boundaries to have in order to protect yourself to make sure your time, energy, and effort is put to good use and not wasted. Having these types of rules is important when dating.
Defining The Relationship: When the person is found that you feel a vibe and connection with, it's at that time when you start asking real questions that could define your future with them. This is done in order to know how compatible you are with each other. During this moment you should get to know the real them and also anything that could be a plus or a negative that could affect your vision for the future with this person. There are specific questions I can work with you on that will show you how to ask a potential partner to figure out if they're really for you and if it's worth your time to invest in them.
The real work in dating is making a good impression of who you are and from there being patient and then let the right person work their way to you.
Below are dating issues I can help you with:
